“It’s not your job to like me.. it’s mine”- Bryon Katie
” I love you” .. easy to say this to someone else. Can you say this to yourself?
This can be the most comfortable thing to say for some, but for some it may be the most difficult thing to say. Why is it so difficult to love yourself?
It has taken me a long time to now comfortably say that I love myself. I can use the excuse that there have been people in my life who have made me feel “not good enough”. But the truth would be that probably I never felt good enough about myself. Did I accept that its ok to make mistakes, that its ok to not always be perfect, that its ok if I was not the best at whatever I did, that its ok if somebody appeared to be better than me. I don’t think I did. I always felt that I had to be like her or her. I don’t think I ever acknowledged myself for my strengths, my wins. If I couldn’t see the “unique” me , how could anyone else??
I now am grateful for who I am , for the family I have, for the friends I have and for being “Me” . Yes I absolutely love myself !!!!!